31st May 2007

I Hate My Relationship!

posted in Law of Attraction, Stephen Pierce, Self Improvement, Success, Self Motivation, Gratitude, Relationship |

I am back again. Snatching the cyberspace from my hubby, James.

After James shared his turning point at the previous post, I felt compelled to share my feelings towards this relationship.

My good friend made this comment about James when she saw our website: “Been following your blog. Your hubby doesn’t sound like the guy i’ve known for 13 years. He’s a changed man and all for the better ha ha…”

Yes, he certainly is. James has finally found something that he can do for 16hrs a day and still love doing.

For two years, I have been supporting James to go full time into this entrepreneur ventures but I got very disappointed along the way.

In my eyes, James is a very smart person with lots of potential. I know he can achieve more in life instead of slogging his way in a company.

When James brought up the idea of quitting his job to go full time into business, I supported him fully. We changed from a dual income family to a single source of income.

Expenses have to be trimmed to meet do with what we have.

I am looking forward towards the day James make it big in his entrepreneur journey. Then, I know he can bring me my deepest joy by letting me to become a stay home mum.

But that did not happen!

Months after months, I saw him sitting at his desk but I felt he did not put in enough efforts to get results. I was really disappointed. I told James ” Do you know you have wasted the most precious two years I have given to you”.

I felt resentful towards this relationship. There I was slogging in the office and yet he is enjoying himself at home. Do you call this a man?

I could not understand why such an intelligent man will allow laziness to stop him from moving towards his goals. I was puzzled. I persuaded James to attend motivational seminars but he always said ” Well, I don’t need this”

Today, James is a change man. He is so passionate about what we are doing today to spread the awareness of law of attraction to all of you. He wants to help everyone to get off your butt and take steps (even if they are baby steps) towards your dreams and goals.

I am glad to receive this changed man into my life. His turning point came about because he met Stephen Pierce. My came about because of Law of Attraction.

This is how Law of Attraction changed my life:-

1) I decided to take 100% responsibility in my life.

In the past, I am hoping James can provide me with the passport to my dream of working from home. But after watching The Secret movie over and over again, I decided that I have to own my dream to become a stay at home mum.

Because of all the frustration, helpless, anger, doubt I felt towards James, the law of attraction is working against my dreams. I have to find a way to help myself to get out of these negative thoughts.

2) Adopt Attitude of Gratitude

Stephen Pierce taught me that gratitude is such a big thing that it will change your life. You should be grateful for all the things that happen in your life, regardless how small they are.

Along the way, most of us start to take things for granted. We think it is our right to take in that breathe of air, it is our right to demand our love ones to provide what we need in life.

Adopting gratitude allows me to see James in the new light. He is a wonderful daddy to our sweet Stella girl. He is a good hubby and does the housework so that I won’t be too tired.

3) Visualization My Dreams

With gratitude, I began to visualize myself being grateful to meet this man I have married. I began to visualize myself for owning more responsibility towards my life instead of saying my dreams in my life did not work out because I am being sabotaged.

Initially visualization is hard but no longer now with the help of brain wave enhancement music called Attraction Accelerator. I can now picture clearly the type of life I truly desire - the happy getaway with James and Stella, the seminars I can attend all over the world, the joy of sending Stella to school, the joy of working at home with James on our mission to spread more awareness to our readers and much much more.

I used to hate my relationship with the man I married.

But law of attraction and the Attraction Accelerator have changed my life. Now the universe gives me a change man whom I have been looking forward to receive for many many years.

I love James even more each day now! If you also loved James sharing, do leave a comment to share your thoughts. This little comment you make will give him really happy and help many many others who needed some encouragements.

Hugs,
Karen

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There are currently 4 responses to “I Hate My Relationship!”

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  1. 1 On June 7th, 2007, Donald Latumahina said:

    It’s amazing to see how such a turn around could happen. Your post reminds me about the importance of gratitude. I agree, gratitude is very important. If we are grateful, we will always see the world in a positive way. In turn, our response will also be positive.

  2. 2 On June 9th, 2007, Anne said:

    You know that thing about sense of humour.
    If you ain’t got it then you won’t get it.
    Keep it up…

  3. 3 On June 23rd, 2007, Chris said:

    Hi James and Karen

    I just wanted to say how much I appreciate the personal nature of your blog. The fact that you have been willing to open up and share so much means a lot, and inspires me to take action to improve my life.

    Kind regards
    Chris

    www.createspersonalgrowth.com

  4. 4 On June 26th, 2007, JamesKaren said:

    Hey Chris,

    Thanks for the compliment. It is our personal goal to share what we know and in the process help whoever needed a positive perspective in life. It just make us happy to know that another soul has benefited from our blog!

    Love,
    James

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