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Hey Folks,

Today, I will share with you why I failed, my turning point, what changed and how it changed me.

By now, you have gathered that I have tried not 1, not 2 but 4 businesses and all failed. All of them failed not because they were not doable, lousy, scams or whatever you or me may attribute the blame to. It failed because of 3 factors:

1) I could not push beyond my own mental barrier.
2) I could not push beyond my own barrier because I was lacking the fuel to drive me forward and I had tons of burden called negative thoughts (some people call it negative energy).
3) I could not focus and when I do focus, I focus on the negative thoughts.

So what is common amongst those factors? Yes, it is MYSELF. That’s right, MYSELF. Now hold that thought for a second and think back to any moment when you blame something or someone for failing you. Think about it. Could YOU have done anything that could change the outcome? Most likely than not, the answer is a resounding YES! That’s right, you and I could have done something to change any situation to a better situation then you were in. It’s whether you want to or not.

Lets take, for example, in my MLM business, I constantly blame the quality of my leads for having no budget to start their business. Could I change the fact that they have no money to start the business? Nope, but what I COULD do was to get more leads, right? Or I could just get one more MLM Business that was suitable for small timers, right? But I did not.

Another example: I also constantly blame that the business needs high cost to run because I had to consistently buy leads and they ain’t cheap. Factor in conversion rates of 1-5% and you blow a hole in your pocket. Could I change the nature that you require leads in a business? NO! In fact all business requires leads. What I could do was to take out the phone directory and call all the numbers listed! It’s FREE but I didn’t do it. I say, “It’s tough”, “I don’t like cold calling”, “I don’t like to disturb people”, “They will sure reject me”, “I am not that thick skin”, etc. See the point?

Another example: Could I change the fact that there will always be a conversion rate and it always starts at the lower end and moves up when you get more competent in converting your prospect to buyers? Nope! In fact, even successful businesses typically don’t convert more than 20% in general depending on the business nature. What I could do was to learn other ways to get leads, such as internet marketing and drive traffic for free by attracting people who love or want to do MLM business? I did this on my forth business but was quick to give up when I don’t see the traffic. You see, I was incompetent in driving internet traffic and there were tons of opportunities around to learn. I saw them but refused to take any action to improve my skills and I just blame the website, the internet, etc. In short, I lost focus very quickly and I start to focus on the negative thoughts.

So, what made a stubborn and arrogant man like me change? 3 factors:

1) One man with a bug heart - Stephen Pierce supplied me with the dream and trained my competency.

2) One life changing ebook - An Interview with Bob Proctor showed me the way and possibilities.

3) One incredibly awesome product - The Attraction Accelerator provides me with the positive energy, ignites my feeling and focus them to achieve my goals.

Since march 07 this year, I have manage to actually earn net profit for the first time in business and I was thousands of times more profitable than any other prior businesses I tried before (Note: I am not saying this business is better. What I am saying is that I am more successful). Isn’t that great? So what am I like now:

1) I am now in positive mood for most of the day.
2) I look at things from the positive angle.
3) I look for solutions that I can do.
4) I get things done, immediately.
5) I work 18-20 hours a day on my internet coaching business.
6) I don’t feel tired emotionally anymore and I feel the energy to drive me all day long.
7) All in all, my friends and family love me more than ever.

And I get to help people, who where like me before, get off their “butt” and actually help themselves get a better life. I have helped to drive many friends forward and change their life just by asking them to get the report, read what I post here and try some of the tools that could help them (some tools are backed by 1 yr money back guarantee, what is there to lose?).

Bottom line is this, I was moved by the big man with the big heart (Stephen Pierce) at his event and it is my wish that I can help others like me turn a new life.

There are bound to be people who do not believe me but it doesn’t matter, everyone has the right to their own opinion and I wish you the best. What I REALLY cared only for was those who took action and benefited. I have tons of real friends who saw me change and they know. I have netizens who read my blogs, tried my methods (which is freely posted in my blog) and used my recommended tools and they benefited.

So remember, it doesn’t matter how good or bad or lousy you are, you can always get better if you just take the courage to do it.

Love,
James

PS: I actually had a much longer post but I decided to cut out some details for later post to keep this one manageable.

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Hi, I am back today to continue sharing the 3 secrets which you can use to control your thoughts.

(1) Observe your feelings attached to your thoughts
Need to recap this point, revist my earlier blog post.

(2) Gratitude

Gratitude is simply an attitude for being grateful or what you have.

Most people tend to complain about their current situation. When they do that, they are sending a magnetic waves to the universe that they want more of such things.

You should express your gratitude at least once a day. You can do that when you are communiting, first thing in the morning, or last thing before you sleep.

When you express gratitude, you put yourself in a frame of mind of happiness. The key here is you are focusing on what you have and the energy you send out is you have a lot.

The universe will respond to your energy and gives you even more.

(3) Divert Negative Energy

Bad things do happen in our life. Such things may be major illness, retrenchment, relationship break-offs etc.

When such things strike in your life, you can re-divert your negative energy into something positive.

How can you do that? The best way I can make you understand this concept is to illustrate a true life experience.

In 2005, I went into an apparel buiness partnership with a friend. The business relationship did not go well. At one stage, Ii stop trusting my business partner when a supplier disclosed that my partner has asked him to inflat his cost on the invoice. That was the last straw of my frustration. I called it quit and faced the challenge of losing tens of thousands on the unsold goods.

I did not know how I am going to recover my capital. But I recognized that I cannot keep on feeling so negatively over the incident but must do something to clear the goods. This is the only way for me to recover my investment capital.

The next few months, I were actively contacting my resellers and giving them consignment goods to market. I also took up bazaar sales to clear the goods to end consumers. I have re-diverted my energy from thinking “Why did my partner cheat on me?” to “How can I recover my investment capital?”

The end conclusion was I not only recovered my investment capital but I made a profit from selling the stocks. For the remaining unsold stocks, I have donated them to charity.

Why did I share my true life encounter with you?

I realized sharing experience is the best way for me to illustrate a concept to you so that you can fully appreciate and apply the same concept in your life. If you have been following my blog, you will recognize by now that success is a formula. All the great people have used the same formula to create success in their life. We too can use the same success formula and there isn’t a need to recreate one. Also, all the things I am sharing with you( e.g. the vision board, the Attraction Accelerator, visualization techniques), I have personally experienced them and knew that it worked!

Now that you are empowered to control your thoughts, you can think and grow rich. Trust the universe that it will answer your intentions because the universe always says “Your wish is my command”. Do drop me a comment if you find the post useful or simply have some experiences to share too.

Before I go, I must recommend that you subscribe to 7 FREE powerful Law of Attraction Lessons from The teachers Featured in The Secret. I have learnt so much from them and their concepts allowed me to link my experiences which I shared with you.

Hugs,
Karen

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Yesterday, I promised you a personal story on how I observed my negative feelings about my job. See my earlier post.

In 2003, I changed my job from a private to a government-linked company. Within two weeks since I started work, I have this negative emotion that the government working style is not my cup of tea. However, I did not dare to do anything to address the uneasy feeling and kept my job.

Two years passed really quickly. I became less and less happy working in the job. I was originally a very motivated person but I became negative about myself and finally I hated myself for becoming such an unmotivated person. At that time, I saw no solution to solve the situation. I was trapped within my own negative thoughts.

In 2005, I met my turning point. I was introduced to a healing teacher. Through visualization techniques, he let me visualize and saw the reason why I hated my job and my ex-boss. My ex-boss reminded me of my mum, who created much fear in me when I was young. I was powerless towards my mum and so was I towards my ex-boss in the job.

During the visualization session, I also imagine what kind of person I really want to be. I used to be a motivated, cheerful person and I want to be the same. Through my awareness, I finally realized it was wrong for me to just ignore the recurring negative emotions I felt about my job. Whilst I pretended everything was fine on the surface, but I felt so miserable within.

After acknowledged my true feelings, I quit my job. I knew I could not change the company culture or my ex-boss’s personality. However, I now believed that I have full control over the situation. I can change my environment I am working in. Till today, I never regretted for making the decision to quit, I only regretted that I took too long to take control of my life.

Maybe you might feel the same way about your marriage, your career, your body, and your circumstances. The universe is sending you an alarm, telling you that you are having thoughts that are not the reality you wish to face.

If you are feeling this same way now, do yourself a favor. Acknowledge your true feelings and then ask what can you do about it. You have to love yourself before you expect others to love you.

If you keep thinking the same thoughts, you will keep having the same negative emotions. Your action will not be different from the past and you will attract more negative circumstances.

Now that you know my story, I want you to start observing your feelings when you are thinking. The feelings hold the key to your success.

In my next post, I like to write about the two other techniques on how you can control your thoughts.

Hugs,
Karen

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The law of attraction states that we become what we think about most. This means if we can control what we think about, we can choose the type of people, event, and experiences we attract into our lives.

The question you are probably thinking now is how are you supposed to control your thoughts if you can be thinking of so many things each day?

Bob Proctor discloses two powerful techniques that you can use. The first technique is to observe the feelings that are attached to your thoughts.

Feelings or emotions can be classified into positive or negative. The former makes you feel good and is an indication that your thought is in alignment of your sub conscious. Examples of positive emotion is happy, excited, love, peace.

On the other hand, negative emotions make you feel bad and indicate you are not in alignment with your sub conscious.

Feelings are your powerful guidance system. When you feel unappreciated with your job, these are signs from the universe that you need to change your direction immediately.

It is important to take note that changing direction does not mean you must change your job. Instead, the real meaning is you should not ignore your feelings and should do something (example talk to your boss) to fix the problem.

Tomorrow, I like to illustrate the above point with a personal experience. Do come back because it is a story that make awaken some feelings within you!

Hugs,
Karen

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Yesterday I wrote about 5 Secrets in visualization.

Two secrets disclosed are:-

(1) Increase the Color and Brightness of a Wanted Scene

(2) Desensitize an Unwanted Scene

When writing above points, I recalled a personal experience, which I like to illustrate how these points serve in visualization.

I used to be afraid of cats. I really did not know the reason since cats did not bite me when I was young. My fear of cat is so strong that I could hear my heart pumping fast and loud even when I saw cats at a distance.

One day, I decided to use visualization to remove my fear of cats. What I did was I visualized a scene whereby cats are walking towards me. Immediately, fear set into my emotion.

Next, I decreased the color and brightness of the scene to black and white before I minimized the scene such that it only occupied the left hand corner of my mind.

Finally, I visualized a scene whereby cats are walking near to me. After feeling comfortable with cats, I imagine myself bending down and stroke a cat with my hands. At this point, I increased the color and brightness of the scene.

After one visualization exercise, I am absolutely comfortable of walking near to cats. Isn’t it amazing?

Now that you are aware of the secrets in visualization, you are now empowered to successfully visualize your dreams into reality.

Hugs, Karen

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