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I am back again. Snatching the cyberspace from my hubby, James.

After James shared his turning point at the previous post, I felt compelled to share my feelings towards this relationship.

My good friend made this comment about James when she saw our website: “Been following your blog. Your hubby doesn’t sound like the guy i’ve known for 13 years. He’s a changed man and all for the better ha ha…”

Yes, he certainly is. James has finally found something that he can do for 16hrs a day and still love doing.

For two years, I have been supporting James to go full time into this entrepreneur ventures but I got very disappointed along the way.

In my eyes, James is a very smart person with lots of potential. I know he can achieve more in life instead of slogging his way in a company.

When James brought up the idea of quitting his job to go full time into business, I supported him fully. We changed from a dual income family to a single source of income.

Expenses have to be trimmed to meet do with what we have.

I am looking forward towards the day James make it big in his entrepreneur journey. Then, I know he can bring me my deepest joy by letting me to become a stay home mum.

But that did not happen!

Months after months, I saw him sitting at his desk but I felt he did not put in enough efforts to get results. I was really disappointed. I told James ” Do you know you have wasted the most precious two years I have given to you”.

I felt resentful towards this relationship. There I was slogging in the office and yet he is enjoying himself at home. Do you call this a man?

I could not understand why such an intelligent man will allow laziness to stop him from moving towards his goals. I was puzzled. I persuaded James to attend motivational seminars but he always said ” Well, I don’t need this”

Today, James is a change man. He is so passionate about what we are doing today to spread the awareness of law of attraction to all of you. He wants to help everyone to get off your butt and take steps (even if they are baby steps) towards your dreams and goals.

I am glad to receive this changed man into my life. His turning point came about because he met Stephen Pierce. My came about because of Law of Attraction.

This is how Law of Attraction changed my life:-

1) I decided to take 100% responsibility in my life.

In the past, I am hoping James can provide me with the passport to my dream of working from home. But after watching The Secret movie over and over again, I decided that I have to own my dream to become a stay at home mum.

Because of all the frustration, helpless, anger, doubt I felt towards James, the law of attraction is working against my dreams. I have to find a way to help myself to get out of these negative thoughts.

2) Adopt Attitude of Gratitude

Stephen Pierce taught me that gratitude is such a big thing that it will change your life. You should be grateful for all the things that happen in your life, regardless how small they are.

Along the way, most of us start to take things for granted. We think it is our right to take in that breathe of air, it is our right to demand our love ones to provide what we need in life.

Adopting gratitude allows me to see James in the new light. He is a wonderful daddy to our sweet Stella girl. He is a good hubby and does the housework so that I won’t be too tired.

3) Visualization My Dreams

With gratitude, I began to visualize myself being grateful to meet this man I have married. I began to visualize myself for owning more responsibility towards my life instead of saying my dreams in my life did not work out because I am being sabotaged.

Initially visualization is hard but no longer now with the help of brain wave enhancement music called Attraction Accelerator. I can now picture clearly the type of life I truly desire - the happy getaway with James and Stella, the seminars I can attend all over the world, the joy of sending Stella to school, the joy of working at home with James on our mission to spread more awareness to our readers and much much more.

I used to hate my relationship with the man I married.

But law of attraction and the Attraction Accelerator have changed my life. Now the universe gives me a change man whom I have been looking forward to receive for many many years.

I love James even more each day now! If you also loved James sharing, do leave a comment to share your thoughts. This little comment you make will give him really happy and help many many others who needed some encouragements.

Hugs,
Karen

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Hey Folks,

Today, I will share with you why I failed, my turning point, what changed and how it changed me.

By now, you have gathered that I have tried not 1, not 2 but 4 businesses and all failed. All of them failed not because they were not doable, lousy, scams or whatever you or me may attribute the blame to. It failed because of 3 factors:

1) I could not push beyond my own mental barrier.
2) I could not push beyond my own barrier because I was lacking the fuel to drive me forward and I had tons of burden called negative thoughts (some people call it negative energy).
3) I could not focus and when I do focus, I focus on the negative thoughts.

So what is common amongst those factors? Yes, it is MYSELF. That’s right, MYSELF. Now hold that thought for a second and think back to any moment when you blame something or someone for failing you. Think about it. Could YOU have done anything that could change the outcome? Most likely than not, the answer is a resounding YES! That’s right, you and I could have done something to change any situation to a better situation then you were in. It’s whether you want to or not.

Lets take, for example, in my MLM business, I constantly blame the quality of my leads for having no budget to start their business. Could I change the fact that they have no money to start the business? Nope, but what I COULD do was to get more leads, right? Or I could just get one more MLM Business that was suitable for small timers, right? But I did not.

Another example: I also constantly blame that the business needs high cost to run because I had to consistently buy leads and they ain’t cheap. Factor in conversion rates of 1-5% and you blow a hole in your pocket. Could I change the nature that you require leads in a business? NO! In fact all business requires leads. What I could do was to take out the phone directory and call all the numbers listed! It’s FREE but I didn’t do it. I say, “It’s tough”, “I don’t like cold calling”, “I don’t like to disturb people”, “They will sure reject me”, “I am not that thick skin”, etc. See the point?

Another example: Could I change the fact that there will always be a conversion rate and it always starts at the lower end and moves up when you get more competent in converting your prospect to buyers? Nope! In fact, even successful businesses typically don’t convert more than 20% in general depending on the business nature. What I could do was to learn other ways to get leads, such as internet marketing and drive traffic for free by attracting people who love or want to do MLM business? I did this on my forth business but was quick to give up when I don’t see the traffic. You see, I was incompetent in driving internet traffic and there were tons of opportunities around to learn. I saw them but refused to take any action to improve my skills and I just blame the website, the internet, etc. In short, I lost focus very quickly and I start to focus on the negative thoughts.

So, what made a stubborn and arrogant man like me change? 3 factors:

1) One man with a bug heart - Stephen Pierce supplied me with the dream and trained my competency.

2) One life changing ebook - An Interview with Bob Proctor showed me the way and possibilities.

3) One incredibly awesome product - The Attraction Accelerator provides me with the positive energy, ignites my feeling and focus them to achieve my goals.

Since march 07 this year, I have manage to actually earn net profit for the first time in business and I was thousands of times more profitable than any other prior businesses I tried before (Note: I am not saying this business is better. What I am saying is that I am more successful). Isn’t that great? So what am I like now:

1) I am now in positive mood for most of the day.
2) I look at things from the positive angle.
3) I look for solutions that I can do.
4) I get things done, immediately.
5) I work 18-20 hours a day on my internet coaching business.
6) I don’t feel tired emotionally anymore and I feel the energy to drive me all day long.
7) All in all, my friends and family love me more than ever.

And I get to help people, who where like me before, get off their “butt” and actually help themselves get a better life. I have helped to drive many friends forward and change their life just by asking them to get the report, read what I post here and try some of the tools that could help them (some tools are backed by 1 yr money back guarantee, what is there to lose?).

Bottom line is this, I was moved by the big man with the big heart (Stephen Pierce) at his event and it is my wish that I can help others like me turn a new life.

There are bound to be people who do not believe me but it doesn’t matter, everyone has the right to their own opinion and I wish you the best. What I REALLY cared only for was those who took action and benefited. I have tons of real friends who saw me change and they know. I have netizens who read my blogs, tried my methods (which is freely posted in my blog) and used my recommended tools and they benefited.

So remember, it doesn’t matter how good or bad or lousy you are, you can always get better if you just take the courage to do it.

Love,
James

PS: I actually had a much longer post but I decided to cut out some details for later post to keep this one manageable.

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Today I am going to share with you a true story (of course I know it’s true, it’s my a story of myself).

It’s a story that many of you will relate too. It’s a story that at some point I made contact with “The Secret” and “The Law of Attraction“. And like many of you, I put it into practice and say “why is it not working for me?” It was like “What’s wrong with this thing? What am I missing? Did I do anything wrong? Why couldn’t I attract what I wanted?”. It was like building a 2000 piece puzzle with 1999 piece, something was missing! For those who got it working, Congratulations! For those who didn’t, read on!

I was a software engineer by training, I worked in a multi-national software company for 8 years before I decided that enough was enough. I was not a happy man, even though I earn pretty ok, had a lovely wife, beautiful daughter, just bought a new house, etc. I was not happy because I feel that work was tough, my customers were unreasonable and I could not change anything of that unless I quit my job. Sounds familiar? You bet!

Hmmm, so I thought I was unhappy because I could not control the elements that made me unhappy. So, what do I do? Get your own business, that’s what I would do! That was sometime in Sept 2004. I worked my business typically like every other newbie businessman, went for some motivational courses, set goals and targets, visualized your success and get on with business. So did it work out? Well, if it did, it wouldn’t be an interesting story right? So, no it didn’t. I blame the timing, I blame my luck, I blame the market, I blame the customers and I decided to change to another business.

This time, I took on MLM. Same routine, went for some motivational courses, set goals and targets, visualized your success and get on with business. So did it work out? Nope it didn’t again! So here I went again, I blame the timing, I blame my luck, I blame the market, I blame the customers, I blame the MLM company and I decided to change to another business again.

Third try, I tried an apparel business. Same routine except no motivational courses, set goals and targets, visualized your success and get on with business. So did it work out? Nope it didn’t yet again! So here I went yet again, I blame the timing, I blame my luck, I blame the market, I blame the customers, I blame the factory, I blame the middleman and I decided to change to another business again. The only difference this time round is that I have a secret weapon with me. I have “THE SECRET” DVD. That was in Sept 06.

Armed with “THE SECRET” and “The Law of Attraction“, I set out to reconquer the MLM business I left behind in the 2nd attempt. This time round, I have industry knowledge, I know the process, the business, I know how to visualize success (or so I thought) so it would be a cakewalk …… It should work right? Unfortunately, NO! That’s fourth in a roll! I was like W*F (sorry, but thats the only expression that fits the bill), I could not believe it. I DO NOT WANT to believe it! And well, this time, I blame “THE SECRET” and I say The Law of Attraction Does Not Work!. Hmmm …… sounds familiar?

Do You Want To Know What Happen Next? Stay Tuned for Part 2 later.

Love,
James

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Hi Folks,

If you have been following my post from about 2 weeks ago, you should be quite clear of what I was talking about by now. But for those who missed them, the related post from the series are here:

Law of Attraction - What is Success?
The Secret - Practicing Success
Visualization - A Kiwi With A Vision
The Secret - How Does The Universe Conspire To Help You?
The Secret - The Universe Do Not Help You Get What You Want!
Practicing Success - Nothing Equals Nothing
Practicing Success - The First Step To The Law Of Attraction
Practicing Success - Kids Know Law Of Attraction Better Than Adults
Practicing Success - A Word From Jay Abraham

This whole series of post was based on James Principle for applying Law Of Attraction:

“If you want something, you have to at least do something to get it” - James 1st Principle
“The universe seeks to help those that help themselves” - James 2nd Principle.

At the end of all those ranting and chanting, all I wanted for you is to get you to take action in your life. If you are already taking action, congratulations and come back to visit us often. If you have not, I urge you to help yourself. Take Action!

It’s your life at stake, not mine. If you succeed, you and your family enjoy the fruits of your labor, not me. I can cheer you on, write all this nice blog to encourage you but I cannot do it for you. You are the only person empowered to help yourself. Take Action!

I have attracted you here because what I have posted resonated with your thoughts. Jay Abraham mentioned that there are 3 types of people, you should now think about which you belong to and what you want to do about it. Take Action!

Now, if you have decided you want to help yourself. Congratulations. See, the Law of Attraction works! Go draw up your Vision Board and decide what you want for yourself and act on it. If you need help, resources or tools, there are a whole bunch of them on the internet and a great site would be secretofunlimitedprosperity.com Come back to visit us often and remember this quote:

Stop Thinking Of What You Don’t Want. Start Focusing on What You Do Want!

Now, if you are not already an achiever and decides to do nothing about it. I have this quote for you:

Waiting is the favorite past-time of failures - David Cavanagh

I know I have gotten a couple of folks off their butts and I am extremely happy for them. I remember the day I decide to take charge of my own life. It changed me forever for the better. I am a happier man with a happier family. With this I end my series of post on this topic. But stay tuned as Karen will be bringing in a new series of post which will excite everyone, achiever or otherwise.

Love,
James

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Hi Folks,

This is a special announcement in support of a drive by Stephen Pierce and his friends Armand Morin, Jim Edwards, Mark Joyner, Robert Kiyosaki, Brian Tracy, Harvey Mackay, Og Mandino, Dolf de Roos, Jay Abraham, Mike Filsaime, Tom Beal and Tellman Knudson in support of a 4 day charity drive to raise a million US dollar to feed hungry children. All they are asking for is a little something called name and email to pledge support and Stephen will be giving away a free report called “The Power of the Third Influence” and 3 mp3 tracks.

If you are in the mood to help in the donation drive, you will be in for a big surprise. So check it out at http://www.foragreatercause.org. It’s only available for 3 days, so donate if you are in charitable mood. If not look at the value you will be getting by pledging your support.

We have already pledge our support in the name of http://secretofunlimitedprosperity.com. I hope you do too.

Hugs & Loves,
James & Karen

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