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Hey Folks,

Today, I will share with you why I failed, my turning point, what changed and how it changed me.

By now, you have gathered that I have tried not 1, not 2 but 4 businesses and all failed. All of them failed not because they were not doable, lousy, scams or whatever you or me may attribute the blame to. It failed because of 3 factors:

1) I could not push beyond my own mental barrier.
2) I could not push beyond my own barrier because I was lacking the fuel to drive me forward and I had tons of burden called negative thoughts (some people call it negative energy).
3) I could not focus and when I do focus, I focus on the negative thoughts.

So what is common amongst those factors? Yes, it is MYSELF. That’s right, MYSELF. Now hold that thought for a second and think back to any moment when you blame something or someone for failing you. Think about it. Could YOU have done anything that could change the outcome? Most likely than not, the answer is a resounding YES! That’s right, you and I could have done something to change any situation to a better situation then you were in. It’s whether you want to or not.

Lets take, for example, in my MLM business, I constantly blame the quality of my leads for having no budget to start their business. Could I change the fact that they have no money to start the business? Nope, but what I COULD do was to get more leads, right? Or I could just get one more MLM Business that was suitable for small timers, right? But I did not.

Another example: I also constantly blame that the business needs high cost to run because I had to consistently buy leads and they ain’t cheap. Factor in conversion rates of 1-5% and you blow a hole in your pocket. Could I change the nature that you require leads in a business? NO! In fact all business requires leads. What I could do was to take out the phone directory and call all the numbers listed! It’s FREE but I didn’t do it. I say, “It’s tough”, “I don’t like cold calling”, “I don’t like to disturb people”, “They will sure reject me”, “I am not that thick skin”, etc. See the point?

Another example: Could I change the fact that there will always be a conversion rate and it always starts at the lower end and moves up when you get more competent in converting your prospect to buyers? Nope! In fact, even successful businesses typically don’t convert more than 20% in general depending on the business nature. What I could do was to learn other ways to get leads, such as internet marketing and drive traffic for free by attracting people who love or want to do MLM business? I did this on my forth business but was quick to give up when I don’t see the traffic. You see, I was incompetent in driving internet traffic and there were tons of opportunities around to learn. I saw them but refused to take any action to improve my skills and I just blame the website, the internet, etc. In short, I lost focus very quickly and I start to focus on the negative thoughts.

So, what made a stubborn and arrogant man like me change? 3 factors:

1) One man with a bug heart - Stephen Pierce supplied me with the dream and trained my competency.

2) One life changing ebook - An Interview with Bob Proctor showed me the way and possibilities.

3) One incredibly awesome product - The Attraction Accelerator provides me with the positive energy, ignites my feeling and focus them to achieve my goals.

Since march 07 this year, I have manage to actually earn net profit for the first time in business and I was thousands of times more profitable than any other prior businesses I tried before (Note: I am not saying this business is better. What I am saying is that I am more successful). Isn’t that great? So what am I like now:

1) I am now in positive mood for most of the day.
2) I look at things from the positive angle.
3) I look for solutions that I can do.
4) I get things done, immediately.
5) I work 18-20 hours a day on my internet coaching business.
6) I don’t feel tired emotionally anymore and I feel the energy to drive me all day long.
7) All in all, my friends and family love me more than ever.

And I get to help people, who where like me before, get off their “butt” and actually help themselves get a better life. I have helped to drive many friends forward and change their life just by asking them to get the report, read what I post here and try some of the tools that could help them (some tools are backed by 1 yr money back guarantee, what is there to lose?).

Bottom line is this, I was moved by the big man with the big heart (Stephen Pierce) at his event and it is my wish that I can help others like me turn a new life.

There are bound to be people who do not believe me but it doesn’t matter, everyone has the right to their own opinion and I wish you the best. What I REALLY cared only for was those who took action and benefited. I have tons of real friends who saw me change and they know. I have netizens who read my blogs, tried my methods (which is freely posted in my blog) and used my recommended tools and they benefited.

So remember, it doesn’t matter how good or bad or lousy you are, you can always get better if you just take the courage to do it.

Love,
James

PS: I actually had a much longer post but I decided to cut out some details for later post to keep this one manageable.

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