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In my earlier post, I recommend you adopt 4 steps process when you meet a situation when you need to consider if you should give up.

Step 1 requires you to acknowledge any negative energy vibration you are having

Step 2 requires you to identify whether the “problem” is an issue of setting a goal beyond your belief or you do not like the process/ activities/ actions you need to do.

Today, lets discuss about step 3: Could you change what you are feeling negative about?

If the “problem” is a goal setting issue, it is easily resolved. You need to acknowledge that even plants take certain time to grow or it takes 40 weeks for a baby to be born. You cannot expect to achieve success by short-cut the process beyond its minimum time-frame. Thus, you must learnt how to manage your expectations to receive the results from your actions. 

Permit yourself to set incremental baby goal. If it is difficult to convince yourself that you can jump from $8000 per year to $1,000,000, then plan it to earn the first $50,000 per year. You can set your next $100,000 once the original is achieved.

If the problem is you are not comfortable with the process/ activities/actions required, then consider if you can change the process? For example, you are not comfortable to make one to one presentation on your MLM opportunity , then consider if you can automate this process using videos to present the required information to your prospects. The objective is to change the process so that you will feel positive energy in putting actions so that you take 1 step closer to your goal each day.  

Step 4: Make a decision

At this stage, you probably know how to make that important decision.

You can either:-

a) Change your goal into incremental baby steps or

b) Change the process if you could.

What if the process cannot be changed? Then be truthful to yourself and reconsider to go into another plan or vehicle to bring you to complete your dream.

The key here is you have only changed your current vehicle for a more appropriate one, but you should not give up your dream.

So if someone asks you if you are ready to give up, please reply that person:-

” I am receptive towards changes and this applies to my plan. But I will never give up what I truly want to be”

Believe me, the universe will help you to reach your goal by the commitment you put into this journey. 

Care to share your personal experience? Drop us a comment.

Hugs, Karen

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In my earlier post, I like you to recall any experience when you feel like giving up a project/ business/ relationships. What decision did you make? How did you arrive at your decision?

Should you give up? 

I suggest that you adopt 4 steps process to conclude at a decision of whether you should give up.

1) How did you Feel?

If results aren’t showing and self doubt or frustration steps in, it is pretty easy to assume that you are in a negative energy vibration.

In Law of Attraction, we understand that when we are in a negative energy vibration, the universe is sending you a signal to alert you that something is not aligned to what you want and you should address the issue.

However, if results are not showing but you are still motivated to take massive actions, then there is probably nothing wrong with what you are doing currently.

2) What causes the negative emotion?

When you acknowledge the negative emotion, you are also ready to acknowledge what is the “problem area”.

Is this ”problem” a process issue or a goal setting issue? What do I mean by that?

For example, you are currently earning $30,000 per year. You have set a goal to earn more money of $XX per year and decided to join a MLM.

You have set a goal to create $1,000,000 per year.  If you jump from earning $30,000 to $1 million, the jump may appear too huge that your belief does not match up. It is like whilst you have the desire to dream big, you do not have the same level of belief to match it. When your belief is weak, you do not expect your actions to manifest into results. You can read more about 3 forces of power to harness the law of attraction in your life

This becomes a goal setting issue and you can resolve this issue by planning your goal using James’s Ladder of Dreams method.

Or you could be setting your goal in incremental milestones but you dislike the process of doing the cold calls, one to one business presentation. This is a business process issue.

Which category do you fall into? What can you do in such situation? Come back tomorrow as I will show you how to tackle these issues.

Hugs, Karen

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You believe in law of Attraction.

You have practiced visualization.

You have put in the necessary actions to move towards your dream.

But… results aren’t showing. Your self doubt begins to step in….

Do you have such experience before? The question is should you give up? Is it time to let go?

In the past 4 posts, we talked about the talent show “Britain’s got talent” and how we should search for an appropriate vehicle to spread our talent to the world. Your vehicle could be network marketing, internet marketing, a job, a retail shop etc.

If you are not deriving results from the current vehicle but instead feel much negative emotions, I recommend that you adopt 4 Steps process to decide if the current vehicle is the appropriate one to complete your dreams:-

1) What is your energy vibration during your action stage? Is it negative?

2) Why are you having negative emotion?

3) Could you change the result?

4) Make a decision

Think over the above questions and leave me a comment if you have personally encountered such experience which you need to make a decision. What did you do? What did you consider to arrive at a conclusion?

Stay tune for tomorrow’s post on what you can do in such scenario.

Hugs,
Karen

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What is the change in thought which allow me to stay on with my dreams?

I am going to share it with you with the full release of my email to my friend:-

Hi Friend,

Actually I gone through what you are feeling about ” I have come to the point where I won’t dare to tell people of my dreams anymore, for fear of changing again and again”
Ok, here is the history on what I did for the past 2.5 -3 years

1) Start a network marketing opportunity and an apparel business

2) Left Network marketing opportunity when I am not seeing results. I decide to concentrate on apparel business.

3) Quit Apparel. End the partnership when I discovered my partner is cheating on the business

4) Heart broken. Thinking what is wrong with myself and James

5) Went back to network marketing opportunity

6) Quit network marketing opportunity when I got so tired in talking 1 to 1 basis.

Phew, what an unfruitful journey! I felt I was no longer qualified to share any of my dreams with anyone because I was inconsistent. I did not succeed in the ventures and I quit the game.

I changed my thoughts about my failure when I met Stephen Pierce at a Internet Markerting Seminar. Throughout the 4 days, I learnt one most important message from him that changed my life “Success is about me getting better each day”. 

 It does not matter if I have not succeeded in the past business ventures. The truth is along these years of failing and quitting, I have learnt so much that I have acquired the critical mindset to be successful.

 It is not how many times you fall down. It is all about how many times you get up after each failure and hit back even harder. That is the point about success.

Later when I read more on law of attraction, I also realized a powerful message that changed my mind. This message could be equally important to you too!

During these years, I have never changed my dream.

My dream is to be a stay home mum cum entrepreneur. I want to spend more time with my little Stella. At the same time, I want to continuously add value to the society by putting my knowledge into use.

For this exact dream, I took up network marketing and apparel business opportunities. These opportunities are not in areas of my passion. They are merely vehicles that I want to take me from where I am (an employee) currently to where I want to be (work from home mum cum entrepreneur).

 Did you see the difference?

Once I saw it, I immediately did  not perceived myself as quitter. In fact, I did not quit. I did not lose my passion or dream. I merely board a vehicle which is not appropriate for me to reach my destination. When the vehicle is not appropriate, I receive all the negative emotions (frustration, doubt, disappointment etc).

The universe is sending me the signal that I need to consider changing my vehicle to bring me to my dream to avoid sobotaging my success. There is no single reason why I should feel inadequate to complete my dream.

 Have you also been a quitter? Did you feel lousy about yourself? Did you feel you are inadequate to complete your dream and maybe….. you already do not dare to take any further actions to complete your dream.

May I ask you to look at your past failure from another perspective. Have you learnt from your failure? If you have, you are getting more successful because for your next venture, I bet you won’t make the same mistake.

Are your passion and dream still within you? If yes, then you like me have never changed your dream. Why not consider finding the correct vehicle to take you to your dream. You may not know what is the vehicle, but you can use visualization tools like Attraction Accelerator (the exact ones we use) to ask Universe to guide you. The Universe shall unfold the plans to show you the way.

The exact process happened to me and James. During my down moments, I received an email that Stephen Pierce is giving a free Internet Marketing workshop from a friend. And just because we took action to participate in his course, he showed us the path to work on something which we truely are passionate about.

My talent is in personal development. I have the burning passion to tell everyone that secret - We all have the ability to improve our life no matter what current situation we may be in. Internet marketing is the correct vehicle for me to spread my abundance to the world.

My friends, what are your talents? What is the vehicle you are taking or considered taking to reach your dreams? Time to give it a serious thought if you have never felt good about what you are doing currently.

With these  important message, I end my post on this topic centering Britain’s Got Talent - Everyone of us is born with a talent. It is a god’s gift to us. I have found mine. Have you found yours? I hope our 4 days posts have given you the courage and fresh perspective about your dreams, your talents and the vehicle you are boarding. Come back to tell us how you feel!

Hugs, Karen

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I like to congratulate those readers for taking action to share with me some of their talents.

In my last post, I wrote about the new reality show ‘ Britain’s got talent’ inspired me to tell everyone that we all are born with a talent in life. It is god’s gift to us. I too have a talent since secondary school days but I only discover it in my 30s.

During school days, I could easily spot moments when my friends are bothered by unhappy matters. Although my friends did not tell me what is bothering them, but I could simply “feel” that they are unhappy today. It is kind of intuition within me that picks people feelings, whether the feelings are positive or negative.

When I ask my friends what is bothering them, they could tell me their issues comfortably. This applies to new friends whom I may only know for a short period. I have the ability to summarize their issues and give them an objective view how they can possibly handle this problem.

Immediately my friends see a light at the tunnel and they tell me that ” I feel so good after talking to you. I know how to proceed now. Thank you so much. I should have talked to you earlier”. When I am deciding my education path, it came to my conscious mind that I can take up degree courses in Psycology or Social Work.

At that stage, I have not realized I have a talent. I only knew that I have an accurate ‘ sixth sense’ about humans and I am able to counsel/ guide them back to their correct path. However, I did not choose a course to develop my talent as my mum was not supportive of the course due to the career prospects in Singapore.

In the end, I enrolled into Accountancy. I studied Accountancy for 3 years. After graduation, I worked as an Auditor and worked my career path from an Accountanct to a Finance Manager and finally become a Financial Controller. For a total of 10 years, I have spent in development my skills in managing figures and data.

Due to my talents, I have managed relationships with colleagues very well. Again, I see the same trend happen - My intuition tells me when I feel a colleague is having a personal problem. I may pose my question gently and my colleagues often feel so comfortable that they share with me what is bothering them.

Just like 6 yr old Conny who has a talent in singing, I have the healer abilities to be success coach. What make me realize this ability is I met an alternative healing teacher and he told me I am a healer.At that time, I literally took ‘healer’ as a practitioner in alternative medicine and I remembered telling him that ” I am not interested in alternative medicine profession’.

My first self-development in my talents began in 2004 when I joined a network marketing company. As a networker, I enjoy talking to people about their dreams and goals. It excites me to find that people want to take actions towards their goals. Most importantly, I feel that if I can successfully move someone from searching to taking action in joining the opportunity, I am 1 step away being successful in personal development.

However life has not been a bed of roses for me. I could not make a success in network marketing after trying for 1 yr. In the end, I quit.

Yes, I admit my defeat in network marketing and quit. That is a big blow to my ego. I ask myself “What happen to my dreams”? How can I show people that they can achieve success when I am a quitter?

Just like an a question my dear friend asked me:-

“I fear that I would lose the passion of my dreams again after a few years. So the question that I hope you can answer is, how do you keep the passion alive? How do you prevent situations and people from snuffling out this flame of passion that you’re trying to keep burning? I’ve come to the point where I don’t dare to tell people of my dreams anymore, for fear of changing again and again.”Have you ever felt the same way too? How do you overcome your disappointment and keep your passion alive?

I too have experienced this internal struggle that I do not have the ability to live my dream. I asked James this question several times:”Maybe we are just not cut to be entrepreneurs. Maybe you should just go back to find a job and let us go back to an ordinary life”

It is a tough to admit defeat, but we managed to pull through the ordeal and saw results in our life. This all happened because of a shift in our thought….

What exactly is this shift in thought that allows James and I to carry working towards our dream Come back tomorrow because I want to share with you something very powerful that will blow your mind away!

Hugs, Karen

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